Former athlete’s actions lack maturity
March 31, 1998
On Feb. 20, I witnessed an act of violent aggression that offended me deeply, both as an African-American and as a member of the Masonic organization. I am a minority student in the College of Engineering, as well as an Army sergeant with eight years of experience. The military has allowed me to develop a strong sense of discipline and respect, two characteristics that are totally lacking in one of SIUC’s most infamous graduated athletes. I am speaking about Damon Jones of the NFL’s Jacksonville Jaguars.
The incident occurred in a night club while Jones was visiting Carbondale, apparently for the weekend. Everyone in the establishment was having a good time, relaxing and socializing in a friendly atmosphere. Jones quickly changed that.
My attention was drawn to some commotion and upon examination, I noticed Jones making his way through the crowd by physically knocking people out of his way, including women. An elderly man by the name of James Selph, who has worked for the campus for more than 17 years, asked Jones to calm down in a very respectful manner.
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F you, was Jones’ venomous reply. Don’t you know who the hell I am? I will knock your old a out.
Selph, who is also a Vietnam veteran, took a step back and quickly apologized to Jones. Jones then went into a rage, spitting out an explosion of insults directed toward Selph. Some members of the SIUC football team realized what was happening and made an earnest effort to calm him down. Jones was informed that Selph was a member of the Masonic organization and that he was very much involved in efforts to make positive change for the community as well as the University.
F the Masons, they aren’t s to me, was Jones’ response.
I took great offense at what he was saying, not only to Selph, but about the Masons as well. I walked over to Jones and explained that Selph is a 53-year-old man that simply asked him to calm down. Again, Jones demonstrated his compassion and maturity.
F him, and if he touches me I am going to kill him, he said.
What could Jones possibly have gained by this behavior? Here is a young, minority athlete with and incredible opportunity the opportunity to affect the lives of young people and become a positive force in the community. He should be setting standards for all to emulate instead of acting like a damn fool.
This letter is not an attempt to discredit or destroy Damon Jones. He’s doing a fine job of that on his own. I just want to help young men open their eyes and realize they have the opportunity in life to stand for something or for nothing at all.
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The world is filled with examples of negative influence and wasted opportunities. Become that soldier in life and try to make a positive influence in whatever you do.
I would like to thank the few football players who tried to assist Jones in acting like a man. There are a few good soldiers out there. Keep up the positive struggle.
Masonic lodge W.K.W. #30, Warzberg, Germany
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